To all my watchers

Recently I been seeing these journal from my watchers about how they been losing friend and blaming themselves for it. And I wanted to give my opinion about the matter in this journal for reason why people lose friends, I'm going to use the experience I've been through and try to be as objective to the subject as possible.

Here are 3 common reason in my opinion why people lose friends:

1: They are too busy.

Its is common when a friend enters college or gets a job, that they will not be so frequent with friends as he or she use to be. They will spend most of there time in classes/studying or working and spend less time with you. Some they will manage to be with you as much as possible but its will not be as frequent as it used to be. It difficult to interact with you time to time. So not think they aren't your friends anymore. They just not have the time that they use too.

2: Change of lifestyle

They are some people that will change there interest or style out of the blue. Meaning things they enjoy in the past are not relevant today. They might find you new friend that fit there new common interesting. And sometimes will find there new interest are not relevant to yours anymore. So your friendship will not be has it was in the past. This one is a hard one to deal with since they will think you'll see them as a complete different person. You might not mind there new interest as much but that time you think you are talking to a whole new person.

3: Not worth your time

So friends might find themselves not worth your time. That they will not bother you as much because they feel you will not play attention to them. They will not say that to you because they think its worthless to do so. Though they will give you some clues like,"I not want to bother you," or something similar. Try to tell them that they are special, not just once but as many times as you can.

In conclusion never blame yourself because you lose a friend. Its is common for people to lose friends in there lives. But never think it was your fault. Because you are special and they were your friends in some point for a reason. And that is important, because you will have long term friends which you will frequently see time to time. Even make you friends in your life. 

So never think its your fault.

You are a great person

And I'm so honored to be part your life my bootiful friends :3

Yours truly

~Dav69